Awareness Day

Awareness is so important

Without awareness nobody would know about so many dreadful illnesses and conditions. We wouldn’t know about troubles throughout the world, about starving nations, about war torn countries. Trigeminal Neuralgia is only one of many things which needs awareness and help.

Living with chronic facial pain like Trigeminal Neuralgia can be extremely isolating, exhausting and even frightening. There is so much more to living with the pain, than simply living with the pain. More needs to be done to help people. More understanding from doctors. More research needs to be carried out.

With awareness, hopefully we can achieve that.

We hope that one day, people will hear the words “Trigeminal Neuralgia” and immediately understand how much pain this condition causes. We, the sufferers, are really the only people capable of doing this.....and it can be done. By talking about our pain, by writing about it, by trying to get as much exposure as possible, we can help people understand.

If we say nothing, people will never understand.

If we say it is a migraine or earache because that is easier than explaining, people will never understand.

If we just give it that nickname of the Suicide Disease, people will still never understand.

The only way we can expect people to at least try to understand is for us to name it and explain it.

Awareness days are an excellent way to get more exposure, but in actual fact one day in the year is only a very small part of the awareness work which goes on.

We all need to work constantly, throughout the year to get more understanding. We need to work hand in hand with the official TN organizations. We need to ensure that any information we pass on is correct, easy to understand and it needs to reach the eyes and ears of not only TN sufferers, but their families, friends, colleagues and even medical personnel if at all possible.

With the internet, we have knowledge at our fingertips. Knowledge is power. The internet has made the world much smaller. Social media can play a huge role in awareness work. The ‘share’ button must have been invented for people trying to raise awareness.

People have often asked, ‘Why bother to share posts about TN? Does it really do any good?’ The answer is yes. To another person suffering, our posts help them feel less alone with their pain. The knowledge that another person knows exactly how they feel helps. Our posts also give them a way of explaining their pain. So if one more person understands this horrible condition, then it is definitely worth sharing the posts. However, we understand that not everyone feels able to share posts about their condition, and that is fine too.

Awareness posts about Trigeminal Neuralgia help people, but more than that, they also bring hope. We know there are no magic answers, but when we have hope, life is so much better.

For more information about the research being done, please take a look at the Facial Pain Research Foundation's website. http://www.facingfacialpain.org/

Trigeminal Neuralgia can be difficult to explain. We have made posters and videos which can help do this. 

• Faces Behind The Pain video
• Trigeminal Neuralgia Challenge Video
• What is Trigeminal Neuralgia (in various languages)
• Pain Attack and info cards (in various languages)

For more information and awareness material which can be shared, please visit the End TN page on Facebook. www.facebook.com/endTrigeminalNeuralgia 

A Face Behind The Pain

Facial pain can come in various forms and have various causes.

One cause of the pain can be injury to the facial nerves. Perhaps a fall or a car accident cause an injury which leaves lasting damage.

Shelley, a TN sufferer in Canada, was at a baseball game when she was accidentally hit on the face by the baseball.

The result was shocking.

With thanks to Shelley for allowing us to use her photos

As the days passed, the bruising came out. Shelley's face was black, blue and a multitude of other colours.

She was in extreme pain.

People saw her and knew she was in extreme pain. The bruising allowed people to understand.

Nobody would have looked at her and thought, "there's nothing wrong with her", "why doesn't she just take a couple of painkillers?", "what is she complaining about?" or, perhaps worst of all,  "she doesn't look sick!"

Everybody who saw Shelley's face could tell the pain she was in. People could comprehend the agony.


However, bruises fade…...


Shelley's face soon turned back to normal. But, sadly, the damage to the nerves was permanent. The bruises were gone, but the pain remained, possibly even became worse.

Constant aching, burning, agonising pain….along with the emotional issues which go hand in hand with chronic illness.

Shelley became a sufferer of an extremely painful, but invisible condition. A condition which can take over a person's life. A condition which non-sufferers, including many doctors, find extremely difficult to comprehend.

If only people could see our invisible bruises, surely they would understand the pain.

There is no cure (at the moment) for trigeminal neuralgia or similar facial nerve pain. When nerves are injured, they are often damaged beyond repair. We all live in the hope of a cure, but until such time, we desperately need people to understand.

We need hope, we need support, we need understanding.

Our job as sufferers, is to try to make people understand the pain we live with. We must explain it in a way to make people at least try to understand.

End TN made a video last year called "Faces Behind the Pain" in the hope that non-sufferers could 'see' our pain. We don't want to shock people, or scare them, but we do want and need people to understand how painful Trigeminal Neuralgia is, how demanding living with this constant pain is and how frustrating and depressing life can become.

You may also want to go here to our Facebook awareness page to read the individual stories from the people who took part in this video.

✦✧✦✧✦✧✦

How do you make people understand your pain? We'd really like to know. How do you describe it? Have you ever tried to 'draw' your pain to let family and friends, or even doctors, understand? Please let us know by either commenting here, or by contacting us through our Awareness Page or Support Group on Facebook.

It's Not Just About Trigeminal Neuralgia...

We said in a post at the beginning of our blog that when we say we want an end to TN, we actually mean we want an end to all facial and head pain. It is simply a lot easier to say End TN than to list all the various types of pain. Besides, End TN does have a bit of a ring to it.

There is actually a long list of conditions causing facial pain.....and a lot of confusion.

The confusion is not just amongst the patients involved, but the medical profession too.

A person could consult several doctors and be given a different diagnosis each time. The fortunate thing is that very often (but not always) the same medication is used to treat the pain, no matter what it is called. However, when it comes to surgical options, people really need a correct diagnosis. For example, surgery such as an MVD (micro-vascular decompression) will only help if there is a compression on the Trigeminal Nerve. Therefore it would only help if the patient actually has classic TN due to a compression. But some patients are told they have Trigeminal Neuralgia, when in fact, they don’t. They then chase after surgeries which would do no good at all. In fact, they could come out worse than before.

We, as patients, need a name for our pain. With a name, we at least feel as though a doctor believes us. We need that. We also need a name so that family, friends and colleagues can learn about the condition. It almost feels as though we can justify our pain if we have a name for it.

And doctors need to have enough knowledge about facial pain, to be able to give it the correct name. Some of the names given are very generic and sometimes sound as though the doctor is not really too sure what to call it.

The book “Striking Back” by George Weigel and Kenneth F. Casey MD, is known as the bible in the world of facial pain. In it, there is a long list of various types of facial pain. 

No wonder it is so confusing.

And since the publication of that book, there have been changes made to the names of some of the conditions.

If some of the medical profession are as confused as their patients about those names, can we do anything to help?

Possibly trying to find a neurologist or facial pain specialist who really is a specialist would help. But perhaps that is not always possible. If this is the case, try to find a doctor/dentist with whom you feel comfortable, someone who listens and doesn’t rush you. One who even admits they don’t know too much, but they are prepared to learn can turn out to be one of the best.

Keep a pain diary. Write everything that happens. Try to describe the pain accurately, because they need to make a diagnosis based on how you describe your pain. You may think that your cheek flushing when you are in pain is unimportant, but that fact could possibly be the key to a correct diagnosis.

One day, hopefully there will be more knowledge out there......and hopefully there will be enough knowledge to actually treat and manage all of the head and facial pain conditions successfully.

A Christmas Wish